Snugglebug cutie patootie Cuddle bunny Honey bun Cutie pie Pookie bear Sugar plum Snugabug

we can read stories like the examples from here to our kids. the educated mind. there’s also a scott alexander about it

Transparency today

• do you feel like you were heard this week? how much?
• do you feel like we had a similar ratio of our wills and expectations getting attended this week?
• should we change something about our relationship in order to make it better? (this is such a broad question, break it down)
• do https://www.multiamory.com/podcast/339-the-smorgasbord-of-relationships and check on it if we want to change and how we feel about it
• maybe i’m pushing you too much with this idea you can change if you want to
  • i don’t want you to change specifically, just seems worse to me than not being willing to change… not that you are, you usually are in discussions and stuff, just seems like you have a very different opinion about yourself

Things to do

in NYC

• remember that he’s valuable and i should be grateful for him every day (bc if i didn’t have him I’d be 😞)
• weekly dates
• watch the society of the secret poets movie
• go live in the shao lin temple together
  • visit heidelberg afterwards and meet thorsten
• bike trip through the netherlands
• bike trip through italy
  • stay at antonio’s place in the mountains
  • meet morgan’s mom
• japan trip with Susan
• dress up really hot and just do smth else like watching a movie with him
• morgan masturbates me with the shower head and pins me down